Ruined orgasms are maybe the worst factor that may occur to a person stored in strict chastity and orgasm denial.
First, let’s examine what one is. A ruined orgasm is the place you convey your lover proper to the purpose of no return… and you then cease all stimulation so his orgasm proceeds however in isolation from any contact or different stimulation.
I do know, it does not sound too dangerous, does it?
I imply, an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm, proper?
I do know from the ruined orgasms I’ve given my husband, John, they’re worse than no orgasm in any respect. Simply let that sink in for a second, as a result of I understand it is utterly counterintuitive.
Why give your man a ruined orgasm?
Nicely, there are a number of causes.
The first is as a type of punishment. I am not likely into the dominatrix factor, however typically if you wish to make some extent, giving a ruined orgasm is an effective strategy to do it.
I feel it is so highly effective as a result of in the intervening time he feels that time of no return being crossed he is considering, “oh God sure… I am cumming, I am cumming!“… however you then STOP earlier than the very first contraction he feels… and naturally, he is not likely cumming in any respect after that, is he?
The second purpose to do it’s a utilitarian one: emptying his prostate with out going to the hassle of milking him internally or externally, and with out giving him a full orgasm.
There isn’t any compelling medical proof to recommend milking is certainly mandatory for prostate well being, nevertheless it does not do any hurt to empty it sometimes, and you do not have to interrupt the “no orgasm” rule to do it.
And a third cause is… simply because you possibly can. Consider it or not, a ruined orgasm leaves your man feeling much more annoyed than he was earlier than. Unusual however true. So, actually, it is simply one other software in your “tease and denial” toolbox.
An amazing twist on that is when you’re into cuckolding. Tie your husband to a chair the place he can watch you and your lover in motion, after which, whenever you’ve had your fill of your scorching lover and are dripping moist together with his cum sit in your husband’s lap and let him enter you.
Barely rocking your hips, ask him how a lot he loved seeing you making love together with your lover, and ask him if he needs to cum in you as your lover has simply achieved.
He is sure to say sure… and simply as he reaches that time… merely get off him and also you and your lover can take pleasure in watching your husband squirm and moan with frustration as he suffers his ruined orgasm. The presence of your lover watching this makes it all of the extra torturous in your husband.
Warning: any time you propose to offer your man a ruined orgasm, you MUST restrain his arms. When you do not, then with one of the best will within the phrase, he will not have the ability to cease himself from “ending off“.
The impact actually is that highly effective.
As all the time, earlier than you play this or another attractive recreation, inform your self so that you each know what to anticipate.